Friends Not Fans

God did not design us to walk through life alone. While culture celebrates fans—people who cheer from a distance—God calls us into covenant friendships marked by loyalty, love, and faithfulness. The relationship between David and Jonathan shows us that true friendship goes beyond convenience or admiration. Their hearts were knitted together, rooted in God’s purpose, and tested through adversity.

A godly friend is someone who sharpens you, protects you, tells you the truth, and walks with you through both victory and adversity. These relationships require time, intentionality, humility, and transparency. They are not based on what someone can get from you, but on mutual commitment and shared faith in God.

You were not only created to have friends—you were created to be one. When you choose to love selflessly, show up consistently, and honor others above yourself, God uses your friendships to strengthen your faith and fulfill His purpose in your life.